I was having a conversation with Amanda the other day that I thought I should blog about and see if we are the only ones that notice these things. I find it amazing how some people before getting into a relationship they say how they would never let their significant other change who they are as a person. Like, they have a specific list of likes and dislikes and they are not willing to budge an inch no matter what and then three months down the line, you see that person and they are totally changed. What is up with that?

Like for instance, I never claimed to never be willing to change because there are things I do with the boyfriend just to spend time with him. I personally believe in a relationship it can’t be all one way, ya know? Heck, I was watching golf with him the other day and I strongly dislike golf. I’m sorry but I don’t care to hear about how great Cobra golf clubs are and how far a dude can hit the ball, I grew up resenting golf thanks to my father who cared more about his golf swing than he did me and my brother. The point is, people change things they do when in a relationship because they want to spend time with that person and they adapt to other things because of it.

So my dear readers, do you find yourself changing your interests when you are with someone for a while? Maybe it’s simple things such as you add a television show your weekly viewing list so you have something to chat about or maybe you find yourself trying out a new genre of food. Either way, I believe people change or maybe others change them. Not them as a person, but things they might do that they normally wouldn’t do. I just personally can’t stand those that say they’ll never change and then do change. It’s annoying and no one wants to hear about how bad ass you are when really, deep inside your quite a softy!