People change, or maybe others change them

I was having a conversation with Amanda the other day that I thought I should blog about and see if we are the only ones that notice these things. I find it amazing how some people before getting into a relationship they say how they would never let their significant other change who they are as a person. Like, they have a specific list of likes and dislikes and they are not willing to budge an inch no matter what and then three months down the line, you see that person and they are totally changed. What is up with that?

Like for instance, I never claimed to never be willing to change because there are things I do with the boyfriend just to spend time with him. I personally believe in a relationship it can’t be all one way, ya know? Heck, I was watching golf with him the other day and I strongly dislike golf. I’m sorry but I don’t care to hear about how great Cobra golf clubs are and how far a dude can hit the ball, I grew up resenting golf thanks to my father who cared more about his golf swing than he did me and my brother. The point is, people change things they do when in a relationship because they want to spend time with that person and they adapt to other things because of it.

So my dear readers, do you find yourself changing your interests when you are with someone for a while? Maybe it’s simple things such as you add a television show your weekly viewing list so you have something to chat about or maybe you find yourself trying out a new genre of food. Either way, I believe people change or maybe others change them. Not them as a person, but things they might do that they normally wouldn’t do. I just personally can’t stand those that say they’ll never change and then do change. It’s annoying and no one wants to hear about how bad ass you are when really, deep inside your quite a softy!




I Wish The Best For You

Anyone ever heard that song? I absolutely love it. In case you haven’t check out “I Wish The Best For You” by Emerson Hart out on YouTube. You won’t regret it. When all this drama was happening between me and the boyfriend, I listened to it over and over. It really described how I felt and in a weird way made me feel like things were going to be okay. As much as I love the boyfriend, I still would wish the best for him.

I am about to run to the Wal-Mart with my sister. We have to pick up mine and my mom’s prescriptions. I received the e-mail from Wal-Mart this morning saying my prescriptions were ready along with a lot of other junk mail advertising top diet pills and good ole Viagra. I swear, I get more junk mail then I get real mail. It’s so annoying, too. Whoever invented junk mail seriously has to be the world’s biggest asshole.

Anyways, just wanted to make a quick blog. I will blog later on. I’m trying to code a new theme, set up some new additions to my domains, and then I need to get all these feelings left over from the drama blogged out so they will get out of my head. So until next time, later lovelies!




Come on dude .. give us a break.

As soon as I make that little mention about the boyfriend things totally change. See, since he left for Ohio and got back, we haven’t talked. So I was assuming we were over but I didn’t want to fully say I was single. So I was taken but I wasn’t 100% sure about it. Does that make sense? Anyways, everything is worked out now.

Right now, I am severely upset with Circuit City and their extended warranty plan. My mom’s computer, which I mentioned a while back, was making weird beeps and she needed a new motherboard. Well after two weeks of being given the run around by our technician, he came, installed the new motherboard and new memory, and then said the CPU was messed up and we needed to send the computer back. Basically he said he’d call his company on Monday and tell them his findings. Well on Monday, I got a call from this guy, Casey, who Rans made friends with to find out more information and to complain on our original technician since I swear, dude was high or something. He’d make appointments and not show up. Well Casey said that the tech just ordered yet another motherboard and a new CPU. So he basically lied to us. So we requested a new tech.

We waited a good week and a half for our new tech who made an appointment for yesterday. Well yesterday morning he called and said he couldn’t make it which resulted in more hours on the phone with the warranty people trying to figure out what’s going on. Basically it’s been a month since the thing messed up. Come to find out, guy we were talking to wasn’t our assigned tech and the company had no clue who he was. So we were basically going to let a guy that no one knew about into our home which scares me. So now, we have to wait until Monday to hear back from the company again. The run around is getting on my last nerve! Grrrrr.

So anyways, I’m going to run and take a shower. Until next time, later lovelies.




Such a pretty day

It is so pretty outside right now. The sun is shining and there is a slight breeze that makes you want to sit outside and just swing life away. By the way, “Swing Life Away” is an awesome song by Rise Against. I’ve really enjoyed my swing as if you couldn’t tell. I was sitting outside taking some photos and I kept thinking how much I really want a laptop. I think I’ve talked my mom into going to look at laptops with me once she finds out about her settlement with Workers’ Compensation. My mom was in an on-the-job wreck back in 2001 so she is supposed to finally settle with them in May. She’s excited to just be over with everything!

Sadly, no word from the boyfriend really since he’s been back in town. He didn’t come up like he was supposed to so no clue what’s going on I guess.




Semi-Update of sorts!

I really don’t have a lot of time to blog but I thought I’d put something up since I haven’t in the past few days. The boyfriend is in Ohio and I’m unsure if he’ll be back tomorrow or Thursday. Oh man, I never knew I could miss someone so much. I miss him ten times more since we talk every night but haven’t since he hasn’t been at home. I really needed him the other day because of this big explosion between me and my best friend. I’ll post about that later, probably password protected because I don’t want a big audience. Some things are personal, ya know?

Not much has happened the past few days. Last time the boyfriend was here we went to Wal-Mart with my mom. My mom has been talking about how she wanted a Wii but no one around here had one. Low and behold we were going to buy a Playstation 2 so we would have some sort of newer game system (I had one but asshole ex took it with him!) and Wal-Mart had Wii’s. Turns out the day before they had received 24 and only had about 10 left. Wow. We also got some outdoor furniture. My mom has wanted a table, chairs, and umbrella for as long as I can remember but never saw a set she liked but she did that day. She also bought a new swing. I love sitting in the swing in the afternoons watching the sunset so I was really happy about the swing.

Well, I have to go hop in the shower. We’re taking my cousin to the dentist. Until next time, later gators.




All content © 2008 miss-kate.com
Wordpress theme by So Chic Design